Perimenopause changed your sex life.

I help couples figure out what comes next.

Reconnect with Desire

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You still love each other — but something's changed.

Maybe desire disappeared. Maybe sex became painful. Maybe you just feel a distance between you, and nothing you've tried has brought it back.

I work with you — and support your partner — to navigate perimenopause together.

Together, we stop focusing on 'what was' and begin building for 'what could be' — a thriving intimate life for this next chapter.

This is perimenopause, not personal failure.

You don't have to figure this out alone. And neither does he.

This might be for you if…

Desire dropped off and you're not sure why — or if it's coming back.

You're tired of avoiding intimacy or showing up out of obligation.

Your partner doesn't understand what's happening, and you're not sure how to explain it.

Meet Jason

I work at the intersection of women's changing bodies and men's capacity to understand them.

Through somatic sex coaching and perimenopause-informed coaching, I help women — and the men they're with — stop trying to go back to what was and start building a new, sustainable intimacy for this phase of life.

And yes, I'm a man doing this work in a space largely run by women. I get asked about that a lot. It's not because I know better — it's because the partners sitting across from these women need someone who can translate in both directions. I'm that bridge.

I don't fix desire — I help redesign the conditions where desire can return.

Based in New Zealand · Working with clients globally

What We Work On Together

A coaching program for women in perimenopause — and the men they're with.

Understanding what's actually changing in your body.

Rediscovering desire and pleasure on your terms.

Helping your partner understand what you need.

Not going back to how things were. Building something better for this phase of your life.

Jason made me feel deeply safe, held, and supported throughout our sessions. His grounded presence and confidence in his work created the space I needed to be vulnerable and move through difficult feelings. His genuine care and passion for this work shines through in every session. I wholeheartedly recommend Jason as a practitioner and look forward to continuing our work together.

— Alissa H, Vancouver, Canada

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Send me a message. Tell me a bit about what's going on.

If it sounds like I can help, I'll send you an overview of my program.

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