Perimenopause changed your sex life.

I help couples figure out what comes next.

You still love each other — but something's changed.Maybe desire disappeared.
Maybe sex became painful.Maybe you just feel a distance between you and nothing you've tried has brought it back.

I work with you - and support your partner - to navigate perimenopause.

Together, we stop focusing on 'what was' and begin building for 'what could be' — a thriving intimate life for this next chapter.Reconnect with Desire.

This might be for you if...

  • Desire dropped off and you're not sure why — or if it's coming back.

  • You're tired of avoiding intimacy or showing up out of obligation.

  • Your partner doesn't understand what's happening, and you're not sure how to explain it.

Meet Jason

I work at the intersection of women's changing bodies and men's capacity to understand them.Through somatic sex coaching and perimenopause-informed coaching, I help women (and the men they're in relationship with) stop trying to go back to what was and instead create a new, sustainable sex life for this new phase.I don't fix desire — I help redesign the conditions where desire can return.Based in New Zealand, working with clients globally.

What I Offer

A coaching program for women in perimenopause.From understanding what's changing in your body, to rediscovering desire and pleasure on your terms, to getting your partner on the same page — that's what we work on together.

Have questions? Want to talk?

Send me a message. Tell me a bit about what's going on.If it sounds like I can help, I'll send you an overview of my program.

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